The title of this blog is self-explanatory but I will say one important thing. You must get rid of energy drainers to have a happy life. The energy drainers bring nothing good to your life, they suck the energy out of you and keep moving on to the next person. They don’t care about you, they only care about attention and bringing you down.
Everyone has them in their lives and you have to choose wisely whether to invest your time into them or not. They’re not going to improve your life in any way. You have to deal with them in spurts and know that they’re not there for your benefit at all. They can be family members, friends, coworkers or anyone that’s in your life directly.
It’s why I preach having a small circle of people around you. Your inner circle is all you need and the rest are your outer circle of people that you speak to sparingly. Depending on who’s in your life, you honestly need 5-7 people in your life that will keep you going daily.
The energy drainers are full of drama, stories about themselves, bringing you down, not supporting anything you do, not pushing you to be great, not going out of their way to motivate or inspire you, trust me they’re not worth having around on a regular basis. They’ll call you to gossip about their life, or to put doubt into your mind of what you’re trying to accomplish.
Take the time to think about the energy drainers in your life. Once you’ve figured out who they are, now it’s time to distance yourself from them. Or you move them out of your life. If it’s certain friends or associates, you can remove them from your life. If it’s family members, use your judgment and intuition.
Get rid of the energy drainers, focus on yourself and what’s best for you! That’s my blog, be good everyone and go accomplish your goals!